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Posted on June 20, 2025 by Cher0805 — Leave a comment

Notes to Self ✨

Life is undeniably beautiful yet complex, weaving a tapestry of experiences, emotions, and perceptions that can shift from moment to moment. Imagine what it’s like for someone who awakens each day feeling profoundly different from who they were before. This feeling isn’t just a fleeting mood; it may signify a deep disconnection from their sense of self that can last days, weeks, or even longer. This confusion can lead to a journey filled with overwhelming bewilderment as they grapple with the question: Why do I feel this way?

In navigating their mornings, they might find themselves drawn into the depths of the internet, searching for answers to explain their symptoms or emotions. Along the way, they may discover articles, forums, and testimonials that resonate with their experiences, potentially leading them deeper into a rabbit hole of self-diagnosis and speculation. They may seek relief from persistent fatigue that feels like an invisible weight, making rest seem nearly impossible. Despite their best efforts to sleep, the relentless noise in their minds interrupts any chance at peace, intensifying their exhaustion.

To those observing from the outside, the struggles faced by this individual might seem abstract or trivial. Comments like “Just get over it” or “You need to pull yourself together” can unintentionally minimize a battle that often remains invisible. They fail to see that this person is wrestling with a reality that can feel unbearably heavy, much like trudging through a dense fog that obscures every path forward. This journey can feel isolating, as the individual may believe that their inability to cope is a shameful burden they cannot share.

It is essential to recognize that seeking help or reaching out to a trusted loved one to express feelings of confusion and disconnection is a display of courage, not weakness. Facing the internal struggle of self-acceptance can be daunting, but navigating this emotional maze together can lighten the burden of despair. Many individuals, caught in the whirlwind of significant and minor stressors, find themselves grappling with anxiety in a landscape filled with uncertainty.

We must become advocates for well-being, understanding that we all deserve support, self-care, and compassion during difficult times. The journey of self-preservation is profoundly significant, affirming our worthiness of healing and understanding. By committing to this journey, we acknowledge our difficulties as a testament to our strength. We are not alone; individuals are in our lives for a reason, ready to offer advocacy, a shoulder to lean on, or a comforting hug.

There is no curse attached to these feelings; instead, countless solutions await discovery answers that can guide us back to ourselves if we confront the root of our issues. Choosing to face these challenges with determination can lead us to a brighter tomorrow, where the weight of the world feels lighter and the beauty of life shines through with clarity and brilliance.

Posted on June 10, 2025 by Cher0805 — Leave a comment

Attachment ✨

As kids, we form emotional blueprints based on how our caregivers respond to us. If that connection was inconsistent, sometimes loving, sometimes distant, we might grow up with what’s known as an Anxious Attachment Style. I know this one well. It’s that constant tug-of-war between craving closeness and fearing it might disappear the moment we get comfortable. You might recognize it in the overthinking, the “Did I say something wrong?” spirals or the feeling that you care too much too fast.

Living with anxious attachment doesn’t mean you’re broken; it means you’re human, shaped by early experiences that taught you love felt uncertain. But the good news is this: you can relearn what secure love feels like. Healing takes time, but it starts with small, intentional steps.

Here are a few informed tools:

Inner child work: This means tuning into the younger version of you who felt unseen or unsure. Ask yourself: What did I need to hear back then? Give that reassurance to yourself now.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Track anxious thoughts that show up in relationships (“They haven’t texted back… maybe they’re mad at me”) and gently challenge them. What’s the evidence? What else could be true?

Mindful self-compassion: Instead of criticizing yourself for being “too needy,” try offering compassion. A simple phrase like, “It makes sense I feel this way given my past,” can create powerful emotional relief.

Secure base visualization: Picture someone who makes you feel safe and grounded. When anxiety flares, close your eyes and visualize that person’s warmth and stability. This can calm your nervous system.

Most importantly, talk about it with a therapist, with your partner, or in a journal. Open communication is hard but healing. Let others know what you’re working through, not so they can fix it, but so they can walk with you through it.

Over time, I’ve learned that the goal isn’t to become completely “secure” overnight. It’s about learning to recognize our patterns, give ourselves grace, and create new experiences that slowly teach our nervous system it’s safe to trust. When you start showing up for yourself with the love and steadiness you once needed from others, you build the kind of bond that changes everything from the inside out.

Myers, D. G., Abell, J., & Sani, F. (2021). Social psychology (3rd ed.). McGraw-Hill Education.

Posted on May 26, 2025 by Cher0805 — Leave a comment

Notes to Self ✨

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Posted on February 18, 2025 by Cher0805 — Leave a comment

Journey ✨

When someone we care deeply about experiences a severe mental health episode that necessitates hospitalization, it can be an incredibly challenging time for both the individual and their loved ones. After being discharged, the initial weeks can often feel overwhelming and tumultuous. The individual, while physically present and surrounded by caring friends and family, may still be struggling with an array of complex emotions and memories related to their hospitalization. Despite the difficulties of these early days, there is a glimmer of hope. The person has made the courageous decision to commit to the various treatment interventions recommended by their healthcare providers. Slowly but surely, with the steadfast support of their loved ones, they begin to see signs of improvement.

As the weeks progress, the individual might start to experience a shift in their emotional landscape. They may find themselves not just healing but also filled with a burgeoning sense of potential ideas springing forth about creating a new path for their future that excites them. This newfound mindset is crucial, as it underscores the resilience and hope that can emerge even in the face of profound difficulties. However, as much as their loved ones may rejoice in these moments of positive change, it is essential to recognize and empathize with the hard work required for recovery. This healing process is often far from linear and can involve persistent daily struggles with mental health issues that may take time to navigate.

For those who stand beside this individual, spouses, partners, family members, or friends, it’s important to approach the situation with an understanding of the complexities involved. While it can be heartening to witness the efforts of a loved one striving to move forward, it’s equally vital to understand that the journey of healing is a gradual process, often characterized by ups and downs. The temptation to guide or push the individual toward what might seem like the best options for reintegrating into society can be strong. However, it’s crucial to recognize that imposing well-meaning intentions or assumptions can inadvertently add undue stress or pressure to their recovery.

Instead, the most meaningful gift a loved one can provide is unwavering support. This support should come in the form of active listening, creating a space where the individual feels safe to express their thoughts, worries, and aspirations without fear of judgment. By standing as a compassionate ally, loved ones can help navigate the complex emotional landscape while avoiding potential triggers or situations that could lead to feelings of relapse or regressing into a state of distress.

Moreover, loved ones must remain mindful that certain mental health conditions may not have a defined “cure.” Healing often involves learning how to manage symptoms effectively and build a fulfilling life within the parameters of those challenges. This realization can sometimes be difficult, but recognizing this can foster an atmosphere of patience and understanding, allowing both the individual and their support system to cultivate a realistic vision for the future.

Ultimately, the journey toward recovery can be seen as both a personal and collective endeavor. With the love, support, and active participation of those around them, a loved one navigating the complexities of their mental health can find a path toward healing. Each step taken, no matter how small, is a victory, and the promise of a brighter future begins to take shape as both the individual and their loved ones walk this path together.